If you’re staring at your closet wondering what actually works for a boudoir shoot, you’re not alone – this is the #1 question I get on every consultation call. The good news: you don’t need to buy a ton of new lingerie or have a “perfect body” to pull off amazing shots. You just need a few solid options and a little guidance. Here’s exactly what to bring.

Button-Down Shirt or T-Shirt and Panties

This is my go-to recommendation for anyone who feels overwhelmed by the idea of “boudoir wardrobe.” An oversized button-down- yours or your partners- paired with just your panties creates that undone, just-woke-up-like-this energy that photographs incredibly well. It’s soft, it’s romantic, and it requires zero shopping. Unbutton it, roll the sleeves, let it slip off one shoulder – this piece does a lot of the work for you, and it’s one of the most requested looks I shoot.

Bra and Panty Set

The foundation of almost every boudoir wardrobe, and for good reason – a well-fitting set is timeless and versatile. Lace, satin, mesh, whatever material makes you feel most like yourself. The one rule that matters more than anything else: fit over size. A set that fits you comfortably right now will always photograph better than something a size smaller that’s pulling, gapping, or digging in. My studio isn’t about who you’ll be after a diet -it’s about capturing who you are today. Bring 1-2 sets in colors that work with your skin tone.

Spouse’s Shirt and Panties

If this session is a gift for a partner, this look is non-negotiable. Grab one of his shirts – a jersey, a flannel, his favorite worn-in tee – and pair it with panties underneath. It’s simple, but it adds a layer of intimacy and personal meaning that generic lingerie can’t replicate. These are consistently some of the most emotional images clients receive, because they tell a story that’s specific to your relationship.

Teddy, Body Suit, Baby Dolls, or Chemises

One-piece looks are perfect if you want maximum impact with minimum decision-making. No separates to coordinate, no worrying about matching – just one piece that skims your body and catches movement beautifully. Sheer mesh, strappy details, and open-back styles all play especially well with our editorial lighting style. If you only bring one “statement” piece to your session, this category is a great place to spend it.

What NOT to Worry About

You don’t need five brand-new sets. You don’t need a specific dress size. You don’t need a spray tan or a professional blowout (though you’re welcome to treat yourself). What you need is a few pieces that make you feel like you -confident, soft, powerful, whatever that looks like on any given day.

Still Not Sure What to Pack?

That’s exactly what your styling consult is for. Before your session, we’ll go through your options together and build a shot list around what you bring -so there’s no guesswork, no last-minute panic-shopping, and no showing up unsure. Book your consult call and let’s figure it out together.